Is this trend God's design for womanhood? For humanity? Why do we live by these standards that only seem to lower the culture? I know people like to say, "OMG it's just music. I like the beat anyway." HERE'S A THOUGHT: GET THE INSTRUMENTAL!!! Words become us. We only seem to understand this when it comes to reaching success. Our words have affects on every area of life. We don't even know what we're really saying when we repeat these words and caption ourselves with them. You